Press Release for Josh Williams! I love this guy!!!

Energy Attunement Expert & Life Journey Coach Specializing in Relationship Advice Josh Williams

Anna Pereira owner of www.Heart2HeartLive.com, the go to site for relationship guidance, love advice and personal wellness coaching welcomes Psychic Life Guide Josh Williams to the panel of expert advisors. Experts can be consulted 24/7 for advice.

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PRLog (Press Release) – May 14, 2009 – 'I pride myself on promoting reputable professionals on Heart2HeartLive.com, therefore, I don't promote many psychics, simply because I believe many of the people who make the claim to be psychic are not. But, once in a rare occasion you will find the one or two truly gifted individuals who are. I have found a few out of many and I am quite excited about my latest find, Josh Williams!' states Anna. 'I personally interview individuals who claim to be psychic and absolutely must be convinced before they are available for consultation on Heart2HeartLive.com. However, Josh is quite the unique individual! I'm very excited to have him on my site because he has many, many talents as well as being a really super gifted individual. All I can say is look out world! Here comes the next super-star psychic!'

Josh Williams, a young 27 with wisdom of the ages, has had his 'gift' since he was a small child. He developed it so thoroughly, he was implored by those who came to him to go into the professional circuit at the age of 18. His soothing manner and caring ways quickly made him popular in his local area and the requests started coming from all over the country for his assistance and spiritual guidance.

Josh is selfless and genuinely wants the people of the world to find healing and bliss. 'My ability is a gift and should be shared' Josh stated. 'I want to reach as many people as I can and help them to help themselves. Aside from directly helping a client one on one, I blog about energy attunement, spiritual secrets, empowering personal guidance direct from spirit and a weekly global reading is done on a hot topic or current event and my insight about it. I have caught some heat from other psychics about giving away secrets to empowering a person to become psychic, but, I am here to do as I am guided and if that is my way to help, that is what I need to do.'

As a 'Psychic Life Guide', Josh Williams' abilities are not limited to the standard 'psychic reading'. Josh's unique healing abilities allow him to read a person's energy in which he gets his information to help a client find the answers and guidance to what it is they seek help with.

'I can perceive a persons energy field which is different than being clairvoyant or using divination techniques like tarot or astrology. Typical questions clients have regard relationship guidance, issues regarding their lover, love life, career and financial questions. I can help with all of this. It is best when someone focuses on a specific area they need help with, like their relationship. Guidance is much more effective than when someone casually wants to know what's going on in my life. I can help them with finding their life path and purpose, but again, this needs to be focused on.' Josh stated. 'In most cases, overall wellness and balance is needed in a someone's life and this is where I can make the most impact. What brings me the greatest joy, is when I make a profound, positive difference in a person's life. I am truly blessed to help people in the way I do. It's rewarding beyond imagination.'

What Josh can do to help a client is nothing short of amazing and astonishing. His specialties are 'Psychic Guidance' through 'Channeling of the Spirit', 'Cosmos' and 'Higher Self'. He offers 'Specialized Life Journey Coaching' which is instruction he receives, once speaking to a client, through the psychic arts to help a client root the profound wisdom he therefore conveys to them, in their real lives. The end result is a client can use the information Josh gives them to manifest their ideal of joy and balance in their life.

Another requested ability of Josh is 'Highly Advanced Long Distance Energy Work'. In this area of guidance, Josh aligns a client to their natural state of harmony and opens them up to receive what he refers to as 'Universal Blessings'.

Josh runs a holistic wellness practice in Salt Lake City, UT and also helps thousands of people long distance. According to Josh, and more importantly, his clients, the 'long distance' or over the phone sessions are just as profound and effective as in person sessions. Upon contacting Josh, a client can get a basic reading to find out about a specific topic to help gain insight and create a plan on how to handle the specific issue based on Josh's unveiling of hidden information.

Currently, Josh Williams is in the process of publishing two books based on ancient theory of wellness through many cultures and his interpretation of the relevancy of how it works as applied in today's society in addition to other topics. A client can consult with Josh by logging onto www.Heart2HeartLive.com.

HOW TO FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS WHEN WE ARE IN A RECESSION

It is tough enough to get the inspiration, drive and commitment up to follow a dream. Then you have to work on a plan on how to carry out the fulfilling of your dream. During this economic AND emotional recession it is especially tough to follow your dreams.

Some reasons why it may be more difficult now is moral in general is down. Your support system or the people who are usually a very good 'cheer leader' or 'fan' who under normal circumstances would back you up and pushes you forward may be experiencing their own hardships and don't have the energy to give you the support you need.

Another reason is the recession in general has taken an economic toll on everyone. If your dream may have needed to be financed, it may be very difficult if not impossible to finance your dream at the present time. Just keeping your head above water is what many of you are concerned with right now.

Between the lack of a sound, emotional support system through friends and family and lack of available funds may make you feel like wanting to give up ... but your inner voice says you can't. So how do you move on? How to you move forward toward your goal and dream?

When you can't lean on anyone stand up straight, stand up tall....you must be your own pillar of support right now. You must do whatever it takes to strengthen yourself so you can forge ahead and move toward your dreams coming true.

First: Believe in yourself! You must under any circumstance, completely believe in your heart of hearts you are able to make this dream come true! Come hell or high water, YOU can make it happen.

Second: Pay attention to other areas of your life being healthy so you have the strength and perseverance to weather this storm of instability and not having any outside help. Make sure you have physical health and mental health. Get your mind right! Mentally work on what needs to be done because this is THE most important strength you will need to get your dream going.

Third: Be crafty and out of the box to get your agenda accomplished. What will you need to get your dreams on the road? Perhaps you can barter with people you know to get marketing and exposure done. Even better, learn how to do it yourself! If you need to get some exposure and decide to write a press release but you are not the best writer, ask someone once you are done to polish it up for you. That way, you did not have someone do the work, just edit it, and distribute it yourself over the web!

Fourth (and most importantly): Don't give up. If you have always wanted to do what it is you are working on...do not let a temporary set back, like lack of funds at the current time, get you off track. Onward and upward!

These are just a few ideas on how to work on your dreams when the world is at an emotional and financial low but when you are inspired and ready to take on the world and get your dream in motion and truly believe in yourself and what gift you have to offer the world, do it! If it is meant to happen it will, but, with your hard work and effort. This will separate you from the fakes out there who don't have the heart to follow their dreams. The stamina to keep with it. The determination to take on all of the battle they will be confronted with. Life will show you the way. It may take some time, or it may happen quick...But if you believe in yourself you can make your dreams come true!

If you would like some ideas on how to get things going, or need some emotional or spiritual support when your reserves are low and you seem to be questioning yourself, please call me http://www.heart2heartlive.com/. I am available and many wonderful advisors are there to help you find your path and help you on your way. If you have hit a wall and need to be brushed off and need some assistance with getting back on the road to your dreams, we can help. Trust in yourself! You are here for greatness!!! May your dreams come true!

We all have experienced disappointment. Tips to help cope with and avoid it.

Everyone has been disappointed by a person or an event at one time in their life or another. You can call me to talk about a situation you need help finding 'the light' in at http://www.heart2heartlive.com/ How to deal with and perhaps avoid disappointment is not easy. Here are some tips.

It may be something someone does, or doesn't do, says or an event may not go the way you planned. Sometimes it's really no big deal and you can brush it of your shoulder. But for those times when you really get let down, like 'the world will end' type of let down how do you cope? If the person or event that has disappointed you was done by accident, mistake or lack of knowledge and not out of malice or it was their intention to set out and make you upset by letting you down, then you have to know how to handle a person or situation when it was not intentional but you got disappointed anyway. Therefore, it starts with YOU.

Here are a few things to remember. You are allowed to get upset, mad or cry. If your expectations are reasonable, it's is only natural to get hurt. After all, if we didn't set goals or aspirations for a person or event, by what caliber do we judge if something is successful or fulfilling? So to set our expectations at a reasonable level with goals in mind with your 'high' expectation and 'low' expectation of what you feel would be acceptable for you to be happy with, ahead of time, is key in handling a potential disappointment.

Don't set your goals too high. Remember, be reasonable. Don't think because you have an event everyone will show up, act like you want them to act, dress 'appropriately' or say what you want them say. For example, you may have a big birthday or gathering planned. You have worked hard at getting everything perfect... the food, the place, the decor, etc. You invite lots of people and as you are planning, you may start imagining how you want everything to be. When the day arrives, some people don't show up, some people are not dressed in the proper attire, some people lack social etiquette and heck, a fight may even break out! Don't let these things stress you or ruin YOUR good time. Anticipation from the beginning that many scenarios may take place and how to handle them is very important with your personal 'damage control' of a situation. Get over it, and get over it quick. Tell yourself 'this is not going to ruin my day'. It really sounds like 'yea that will work...' but trust me, if you don't move forward, as they say 'the show must go on', then it will just fester and turn the whole event bad. DON'T DO THIS TO YOURSELF!

It is after all YOUR event in which you put a lot of work into! However, try to remember, sometimes, people have last minute things that happen to them that prohibit them from coming. When some of your closest friends or family ditch you at the last minute for something they couldn't control, don't turn inward. Don't get mad at them for 'ruining your day'. If they could not come for some reason it is not about you. Try to understand if it were you, you wouldn't want them to be mad at you for not coming because of an issue you could not control. But what IS about you, is the rest of the people who will be there and going on with the event. Sure, you are disappointed, but don't bring that into the happy occasion which is what everyone came together for in the first place. Move forward! Don't dwell on it. Spending the time with the rest of the people there will make you forget about who couldn't make it as long as you allow yourself to have a great time.

How do you deal with being disappointed in an individual? You must remember, an individual person can be the biggest variable. Anything can happen to someone at any time due to a physical resaon, emotional or financial reason to name a few. Typically you set your expectations around what you know about someone. You know who you can go to for watching your kids or your pets and who definitely NOT to go to as well ... Right? LOL! Really evaluate what you are asking of someone and their personal threshold for being dependable or reliable for that task. You cannot expect someone to do something as you ask, exactly as you would do it. You must allow for leeway. People are not perfect and no one will do something as you would. As long as you keep this in mind: Are they acting in good will? Are they using sound judgement? Do they have the experience necessary? If someone has done their best, and it may be a FAR CRY from what you would have done, you cannot get disappointed with THEM. You can FEEL disappointed with their actions and explain what you would have done or what the 'generally accepted correct way' to do something is, but you can't hold it over their head.

Don't feel sorry for yourself or allow yourself to get depressed when you get let down by someone... chances are it is not a 'personal attack' on you. For whatever the reason someone disappointed you or they didn't live up to your expectations, you need to evaluate your reason for getting disappointed. Try not to let a bad day coupled with this person getting you down, allows you take it out on them or blame them. Other events in our lives sometimes make us feel more sensitive to getting hurt or let down by someone.

Remember, no one is obligated to make you happy. You have to create your own happiness. It starts with the decisions you make and paths you choose. Do not be selfish. Do not expect other people to be responsible for your well being. Once you have taken that responsibility, which that person never knew they had anyway, you will be less likely to be let down.

When we are disappointed, at that very moment, it's not so easy to smile, and say 'OK. Whatever. I won't let this get me down'.But you must, so you can move forward and allow another door to open to allow positive energy to flow in.

If you have a situation that you can't get past, find it hard to cope, or think reasonably about because you are so close to the situation and you need someone to talk to, you can call me on http://www.heart2heartlive.com/. I can help you to feel better and move on. When our heart is affected, we don't think or see clearly. Let me help you navigate a crummy situation that got you down. You need to be happy...and you can be!!! Many blessings!

Advice on STRESS!

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How do you get rid of stress? Have you tried with alternative medicines such as talk therapy, meditaion or energy clearing?

Stress. Just the word makes you tighten up if you have experienced it. You no doubt are aware of how hard it is to get rid of. Sometimes we can manage it by making small changes in our lives. Talking about your problems is one way. At www.Heart2HeartLive.com there are many expert listeners and advisors to help you with a stressful situation. They have many wonderful suggestions on how you can change your outlook on a situation to help change how you internalize it therefore reducing stress.

Changing our routine or removing ourselves from situations and people that give us stress are other ways to reduce stress and the ill effects. However, sometimes, we have many things going on in our lives that we can't control that cause anxiety and stress. When we don't have control of a situation, but can't escape it, the stress is hard to manage. Like trying to outrun a mudslide, you just can't jump out of the way. So how do you deal with stress that you think is almost impossible to do anything about or even reduce? When conventional medicines are not an option, for many reasons ... side effects, expense and getting diagnosed and waiting for a prescription, you may consider the alternative ways to reduce stress.

One way is to meditate. Don't be fooled. If you think you can't meditate because you can't relax, you are not alone! It takes a lot of practice and dedication and hopefully you won't get frustrated and give up. Meditating is a wonderful way to refocus your energy and open up your mind so you can get inspiration and direction from having a 'clear head' instead of 'static' always clouding your emotional state due to stress and anxiety.

If you can't meditate, which I strongly recommend, you may want to consider an 'energy clearing'. This is done with the help of a 'Master Healer'. They read your energy and tell you where you are weak and help you to clear channels of energy to invite positive energy in. This has been practiced by spiritual and not-so-spiritual people since the beginning of time. Many cultures believe that 'energy' or 'spirituality' is the core of our being and needs to be healthy for us to be happy. Remember the saying for computers.. "garbage in garbage out'? Well the same for us. SO if it's 'positive energy in, positive energy will come out'.

Stress will do you in. You always feel like you are carrying a heavy burden with you wherever you go. It effects you physically, emotionally and clouds your judgement usually leading to a worse situation! An Energy Clearing or Spiritual Healing can help. You can find someone to go to in your area that practices alternative medicines. You may also want to consider taking a yoga class so you have support around you and practice 'centering' yourself a few times a week to help handle stress in the future.

If you don't have a 'Master Healer' in your area, a great one could be found at http://www.heart2heartlive.com/
Her name is Tracy known as AngelHealing and can be found on the Expert Advisors page. I personally have had her do a 'healing' on me and it was like nothing I had ever experienced! I suggest if you need help for stress right now and have tried other methods, give this a shot. I awoke the next day with energy, inspiration and joy. The feeling of joy ... it's to be cherished, especially when you KNOW what stress is!

Start reducing your stress so you can manage your life better and have balance! Many blessings and good luck!

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Relationship Advice, Career, Life advice with the help of a Trusted Psychic

I give relationship advice from my heart and experience, however time to time, we need a little insight to the unknown! Many psychics over the years have gotten a bad rap. The true, genuine, psychic ability only a gifted few posses, are hard to come by. And how exactly do you select a psychic who is genuine? Accurate? Honest?

We may be familiar with the scam artist types and gypsy's because they get lots of notoriety. Remember Ms Cleo? LOL! But since the beginning of time, psychics, advisors, guides, whatever you want to call them have been consulted from average people seeking some direction for their everyday issue, like money problems, relationship advice, finding their life path, to major heads of country's seeking 'words from the divine' to help them lead their nation.

How do you find a accurate, trusted, professional psychic? Referral is a great way. Sometimes, however, you may not know someone who has consulted a psychic or has a reliable psychic they have consulted with. Finding a great psychic may be hard because sometimes people are very 'protective' if they come across a REALLY good psychic, keeping them all to themselves OR they don't want anyone to think they are the 'type of person' to go to a psychic for advice.

Sometimes people think consulting a psychic may be a sign of desperation, and you that can't make decisions for yourself. It's the contrary actually. A person who seeks psychic advice KNOWS there are answers out there and that they cannot grasp them. If you think you have all the answers, usually you will make a lot of mistakes. One who questions, thinks out of the box or knows there is more than one answer is actually the wise one!

How do you get the most out of a psychic reading?

First, you must focus on what you want to have more insight too. Ask a specific question. General questions or questions to 'test' the psychic usually don't get you a good result. Like when they ask you your name, don't say 'You're the psychic. You tell me.' It doesn't work that way.

Second, you must be open to it so they can read your energy and give you the best reading possible.

Third, don't lead them. Let them give you the reading. This way, you are not 'putting words in their mouth' or trying to pressure them for the answer you WANT to hear.

Fourth, digest what they tell you. Sometime, the information may not make sense now, but will.

What to stay away from:

Anyone who says you 'have a curse' on you and they can get rid of it are a dead ringer for being a 'scammer' or just someone you don't want to mess with. They use dark magic and believe me, you don't want your mojo intermingling with them!

Anyone who asks for more and more money. Making their ability available for people is a service they provide and should absolutely be compensated. But if they are truly willing to help you they will not pressure you to spend and spend or tell you for 'X' amount of dollars 'I can do this or that for you.' They are NOT God and cannot make things happen. They can guide you on what YOU need to do to get to where you want to be.

Lastly whoever makes you feel uncomfortable and pressured in any way or who uses scare and manipulative tactics are also not working in your best interest. Getting wrapped up with the wrong person who uses their gifts for the wrong reasons may try to use you as a puppet. BE CAREFUL!

Personally, I have had many friends who have been psychic and thank goodness I have kept company with some truly blessed individuals. I also have crossed paths with some very dark characters, who shall remain nameless. I kind of attract psychics and it was only a matter of time before a 'dark force' latched onto my coattails. I shook them off thank goodness! But through my experience, I will let you know I have come across a very 'white light', her name is Psychic Star Rose Matthews. She is truly gifted with divine knowledge. She has guided me for a few months now and I have to say, no one has been more accurate, compassionate and 'in your corner'. She is truly genuine and honest. She really works for you. She wants to see the best for you IF you have good intentions. She is an angel on Earth, here to help those who need help. You can find her on http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

So in closing, go consult with someone you feel comfortable with. Do not allow yourself to be manipulated. Be open to suggestions that may not be something you considered as an options previously. After all, who knows what the future holds! I wish you many blessings.

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Relationship Advice From Spiritual Healer at Heart2HeartLive.com Offers Profound Benefits
Heart2HeartLive.com, the 'go to' site for relationship advice with many wonderful expert advisors from across the US has quite a gem of spiritual talent on their roster!

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PRLog (Press Release) – Apr 06, 2009 – AngelHealing AKA EarthAngel911 BKA Tracy is a Master Healer, using her years of training to help people clear negative energy and become more in tune with their life path. Heart2HeartLive.com, the 'go to' site for relationship advice with many wonderful expert advisors from across the US has quite a gem of spiritual talent on their roster! AngelHealing AKA EarthAngel911 BKA Tracy is a Master Healer, using her years of training to help people clear negative energy and become more in tune with their life path.

Speaking to Tracy once and one will be convinced of her gifts. She is a channel and using her gifts she immediately hones in on the nature of a clients ailments and helps to heal. Tracy is available through Heart2HeartLive.com for live advice over the phone or a seeker of healing and cleansing can even get an email reading done.

'Nothing short of amazing' states Betterworld owner of http://www.heart2heartlive.com/. 'I invited Tracy to be one of my featured advisors to help people who really need some relationship advice and help in their love life and life in general. The moment I had a chance to talk to Tracy to 'interview' her for her abilities I was completely blown away and have never been introduced to such 'divine wisdom' before. Her methods are inspired by the Angels and guides around her and she is completely in tune with nature and the animal spirits. It almost sounds a bit hokey! But honestly it was an unbelievable experience I have never had before. She focused on my chakras and dissected exactly what was going on in my life and did a 'healing' on me. She also delivered a message as she channeled angels and spirit guides. I was left awakened. I don't know how she does it, but she was awesome. She is so modest and a joy to speak with. Her voice alone is comforting and really relaxes you.'

Although Tracy doesn't call herself a psychic, her abilities are that of being inspired and guided by the divine. Her life path is to help heal people and help people find their own path in life. Hundreds of people over the course of the years have consulted with Tracy for many reasons. To have balance in their lives and clear channels of energy, allows one to have inner peace and live their purpose. Tracy helps to bring out one's 'Inner Radiance'.

Tracy is quite modest and knowing this is her path, to help heal, she offered this understated comment 'I have never been comfortable with the word psychic as I refer to myself. I consider myself a healer. Distance healings are very powerful and long lasting. Often, it can be the first time you feel such inner peace, balance and enormous relief. We become accustomed to feeling stressed, and out of alignment. An energy healing can literally lighten your vibration and help your nervous system through the imprinting of this much calmer (and more natural) state.' states Tracy. 'And unlike traditional medicine, energy healing is completely natural.'

Clients seeking some spiritual navigation to feel better physically, find their life path, or are looking for some spiritual guidance and insight as to what is going on in their lives, should consider consulting Tracy. Remarkably, this is done over the phone and initial contact with her is free. The costs for her services thereafter are affordable.

'I know of many healers and psychics and you just never know who to trust. We know people like Tracy are out there. The true, honest, guided ones. She is absolutely the real deal. The morning after my 'healing' I awoke refreshed and inspired and at peace. It was invigorating! The only side effect I have felt is pure bliss.' States Betterworld.

People seeking relationship advice and guidance, getting some answers to nagging questions, clearing one's energy, guidance to find one's life path or any spiritual consultation, AngelHealing BKA Tracy is the one to call. Find her at http://www.heart2heartlive.com/ Many gifted and talented advisors, consultants, and therapists from practical medically trained to spiritually guided individuals can be found on www.Heart2HeartLive.com Any issue in one's life can be resolved. It is not the end of the world. A client can get honest caring advice form any advisor, live, confidentially, and any time of day or night at Heart2HeartLive.com.

http://www.heart2heartlive.com/ offers Live Advice for Love, Relationship and Dating. Expert advisors help with any issue as well as psychic advice. Call and talk to live advisors 24/7. Any issue, concern, problem or question, caring advice is a call away.

Relationship advice & Life Advice. Core element to happiness: Confidence

When you are happy you are successful, in life, in your relationship. If you are having problems in your relationship or life in general, there are key elements that are sort of 'core values' for us to attain a content, balanced life. Confidence and being confident is a core element. Therefore, confidence not only makes your life better but you will have more success in life and your relationship. If you are having specific problems that need live guidance from someone who is there to help 24/7 check out http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

How do you perceive yourself? Do you give yourself credit where due? Do you think you deserve to be happy? Do you feel comfortable and confident in your own skin? Are you confident in yourself?

To question ourselves about our performance at work, school or appearance or attitude is natural. It's a checks and balances to make sure we are doing the right thing. But when we always feel insecure about our judgement or ourselves, physically, emotionally, and feel insecure, this can lead to being unhappy. When you are unhappy you may make bad calls of judgement, become depressed, avoiding people and situations which will all lead to never finding what you want in life. So how do you gain confidence to attain happiness and balance?

Gaining confidence is very difficult. The older you get, the more you get stuck in the rut of lacking confidence if you are not proactive or aware of your actions that feed your lack of confidence. Not getting out or facing the things that make you feel like 'less than' someone else will just perpetuate unless you do something about it.

You need to start with positive thinking. Start giving yourself credit for all the accomplishments you have achieved. What are you good at? Focus on that. How does it make you feel to do what makes you feel good? Do you play an instrument or care for animals really well? Is there something you do that gives you pleasure, as simple as your job or in your personal life? Give yourself a pat on the back. Give yourself credit.

Next, never compare yourself to anyone. Again, this is difficult because we live in a society of competition. Rather, look at your great qualities. If your friends were to describe your best attributes, what would they say? You are loyal, beautiful and caring? Take these elements and keep them at the front of your mind at all times. Know that you are a loyal, beautiful, caring person. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. It only matters what the people you care about and you think about yourself. Don't compare the fact that you don't look, act or do what everyone else is doing. You are not them. You are you. You are an individual. Be secure with that. Know that you are special.

Don't be so hard on yourself to try to make everyone happy. You will never please everyone. Try your best. Listen to your inner self. Do you feel good about what you are doing? If you feel like you are letting people down because you can never live up to their standards? Then you surely will feel insecure. Always remember, it's not what they think, if you did your best, honestly and truly, then they can go take a hike. Don't let someone make you feel insecure. Do your personal best and walk away with your head high.

Don't take on tasks that are way out of your league. Don't misunderstand me, challenges are good and help us to improve ourselves, but don't walk up to a super model un showered, in sweats and a ripped tee and ask her on a date ... be reasonable about the challenges your set before yourself. If you have a lack of confidence before asking a girl out - or guy - make sure you look and feel your best. Approach them with a smile. Look them in the eye and ask them out. If you have a lack of confidence, then doing this in itself is difficult, however, you must do the things to build your confidence in which you are scared of. What is the worst that could happen...they say no? Big deal. The trick to this is not taking it too personally. There may be many reasons why they say no, but do not let this define you and make you feel 'less than' and strip you of your confidence. Just say top yourself .. NEXT! And move forward.

Approach all your tasks with an 'I can do this' attitude. If you fail, no big deal. You know it's not for you. Look at the qualities about yourself that make you a great person. Cherish those qualities and give yourself credit. This will build your confidence.

When you are sure of yourself you can take on bigger goals and go the distance. If you lack that confidence you may quit halfway through and then end up in that vicious cycle of 'I can't do anything right'. Again, strengthen your confidence, build it up. Don't engage in thoughts or behaviors that break you down. Stay positive.

Confidence leads to success. Believe in yourself. Hang around people that make you feel good. Get involved in activities that make you feel good. Small achievements add up! This all gets your confidence up.

So how does this all translate to having a happy healthy relationship? Confidence leads to security in your relationship. This is key to success in your relationship! If you have confidence in yourself, you know you are everything your significant other needs to fill all their desires. All of the unfounded, negative thoughts that arise from insecurity, like 'are they cheating on me' 'do they love me' etc. will not be part of your thought process if you are secure and confident.

You can call someone live at Heart2HeartLive.com to discuss your specific issue and get guidance tailored for you. http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

Smile. Chin up and keep moving forward!

Relationship Advice from Chariss Walker at Heart2HeartLive.com

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Welcome Chariss Walker to Heart2Heartlive.com! You can call Dr Char for Relationship Advice, Spiritual & Life advice and guidance now!

Heart2HeartLive.com proudly welcomes aboard esteemed Minister and author Chariss Walker, better known as Dr. Char. Through her life experiences she helps clients with solutions to their problems. She gives insight and advice for relationship issues, love, spirituality, karma and life questions. Her area of expertise comes from a religious and metaphysical center as well as life experience as a Mother and Grandmother.

Getting your realtionship on track

Where is your relationship going? Left? Right? In circles??? Get your relationship on track.
What do you say when someone asks you 'So how's it going with so-and-so?' If your reply is 'Fantastic! We are planning a lovely vacation and talking about moving in and getting a puppy!' or something of that nature, then I guess you are doing splendid! But for those of you who don't know what tomorrow or next week brings for you and your significant other, then you may be caught up in the 'Relationship Bermuda Triangle'

Let's talk about why you feel your relationship lacks direction and focus on how to create a more stable, reliable relationship with your partner. Grow and nurture a healthy relationship with help from an advisor from Heart 2 Heart Live.

Call an advisor now. Someone is available 24/7 to talk to you live about all of your relationship matters and issues. http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

Mature Adult Dating 2: Dating? What's that again? For the non-existent date life or 'Chronically Single Syndrome'

We all know someone with CSS or 'Chronically Single Syndrome.'

Maybe it is you or maybe a friend. Why? Too busy? Too picky? Sometimes being single is great and sometimes it sucks.

Being single and dating is fun ... but what if you are not even dating? Why not? What is holding you back from going out and meeting someone tonight ... right now even? Why do you find it hard to approach a man or woman and start communicating with them? Is it your confidence or self esteem? Is it that you are too picky? Is it that you are too busy? Is it that you don't want to get involved in a serious relationship? Are you unhappy with yourself? So many reasons why we may not date. Finding a date is not difficult. I am telling you the truth! No matter who you are, where you are or what you have on your plate, you can always manage to squeeze in a date. Talk to someone at http://www.heart2heartlive.com/ for dating tips and ideas.

Dating and having a social life are just as important as working for all of you 'I'm too busy to date' types. Don't worry about not getting your work done because of allowing yourself one night a week for some social interaction. I assure you, the benefits you get from that one night out, will help you recharge ... so you will get more work done!

Are you angry that you aren't dating? Wish you were out there more? Let's explore why you are not dating. If the issue is something you need to change within you, we can talk about that... we can help you! If you just need some motivation, ideas or suggestions on where to go what to do or what to say, dress or act like, we can help with that too. Call and talk to a live advisor. We have dating advice for you. The only way you are going to get a date is to go out there and get one! Let us help!! Talk to someone live now and let's get you back in the dating scene http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

Let's put and end to CSS for you!

Mature Adult Dating: How our past relationships influence our current relationship or lack there of.

The saying is true, 'the older you get the harder it gets' This statement is the case for so many things as you 'grow up'. Lets take dating for example.

Typically as you start off your dating life, you get a boyfriend or girlfriend and are committed to each other and date exclusively. This is what is so special about young romance. Being a 'couple'.... ahhhhh! So sweet and innocent! It is almost part of your identity. You are known as 'Billy's girl' or 'Cindy's guy'. When exactly does the change take place where you go from committed and monogamous to dating and perhaps casual sex?

As you get older you may find yourself in this cycle. Maybe you are happy with this situation - variety is the spice of life! That is nice for the meantime but if you are in the boat sailing to the island of 'I better find someone and settle down or an important part of my life will soon pass me by' ... (don't ask me for exact coordinates of this island, it's sort of like the island in 'Lost', I don't know where it is) ... Then you are in this 'Mature Adult Dating Dilemma'. So many single late 20's and 30-somethings are finding it harder and harder to find happiness. At first it's fun to date and date but as you look around and all your friends are getting married and then having kids, you start to wonder ... 'Um.. why am I still single?' Perhaps you may have had relationships in the past that you compare all of the rest too. Perhaps you have crossed paths with someone who has really hurt you so you can't get serious with someone. Perhaps your ideas of what makes you happy and what you seek in a person are really non existent? Many influences from our past dictate or choices and actions in the present.

Do you want to be happy? Are you tired of being single? Lonely? Do you want to find someone you want to spend your life with? Are you tired of dating the wrong person? Are you searching for something that really isn't reality? Let's talk about why you are caught in the dating pattern you are in. Let's talk about ways to improve your choices and change your perspective so you can make the changes for a more positive dating experience.

Talk to someone at http://www.heart2heartlive.com/ about dating.

Relationship 101: Pick the time to talk to help avoid yelling and screaming

Arguing really sucks. But sometimes arguments are unavoidable. If you are in a relationship, you will argue plain and simple. But there is a time and place for everything. Get live advice on ideas to help at http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

Every discussion doesn’t have to end up in an argument. There will be issues and conflicts in your relationship but knowing when to address them and how, plays a major part in getting those problems resolved.

Some tips:

Don’t feed the fire. If you are aggravated over a situation, try to calm down and relax. This is your first step to finding a resolution to the problem. Remember cooler heads prevail.

Know when to discuss an issue. Picking a time and place that will control the situation for you, to some degree, helps. If you meet up at a diner for coffee or place to eat you know the two of you will have to control your tempers. If you are somewhere in public it usually helps to control the situation keeping the conversation rational and allowing the two of you to think things through and speak to each other in a calmer tone.

What you don’t want to do: Don’t plan to talk about an issue during a planned special evening out! If the issue waited as long as it has, it can wait until after your special time out. If you feel the situation is something that can’t wait, and happens to take place around the scheduled time of a major even, like a special evening out, try to hold back so the evening is not ruined with an argument, until you can find the time to discuss the matter. Patience never hurts and time may help reveal more information or a better way of addressing the issue.

Want to know more about how to get through an issue or how to get what you’re saying to be heard? Let’s talk about it. Heart2HeartLive.com

Let me know your tips and tricks how you manage to get through an sticky situation and meet a amicable resolution. Call me or any of the advisors on Heart 2 Heart Live we can help with your relationship question or help with some tips for your specific issue! http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

Is your relationship self destructing? Or are you sabotaging it?

Fighting all the time. Braking up and getting back together. Physical violence, verbal abuse, premeditated acts inducing negative situations in you relationship...Does this sound familiar? Are you sabotaging your relationship? An advisor is standing by ready to talk to you http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

Sometimes a little drama is good .. let's face it things can get a bit boring but there is a world of difference between some fun banter, verbal sparring and blatant, down right negative behavior. Are you getting into drop down drag out fights all the time? Do you precipitate them? Or perhaps you find yourself involved in one that your partner invokes.

When you argue, you can trace it back to the cause. Is is legitimate? Arguments sometimes are petty and go on because you want to be heard or get your point across or make sure what ever happened to provoke the argument doesn't happen again. But is it more than that? Are you involved in a relationship that you argue over and over again about the same issues or are arguments stemming from of specific behavior that is not condoned in your relationship? Cheating, drug addiction, alcohol addiction, porn addiction, distance, isolation, jealousy, inability to be open, infidelity, fetishes, irrational behaviors, disorders, depression and the list goes on.

Do you want the sabotage to stop? How do you get through to someone who is acting like this? How do you stop it, if it is you doing the sabotaging? Let's talk about it. Wether it is you who is the one doing the sabotaging through negative patterns and behaviors or you find yourself victim in a relationship with someone you love so much but need to stop the madness ... Call a counselor at www.Heart2HeartLive.com and discuss how to navigate the situation. Talking helps. You may realize the entire situation is happening because of something completely unrelated to the actual argument ... which is more often the case than not.

Call now and get some answers and suggestions on how to create a loving, caring relationship. Let's figure out what is destroying your relationship and help you to have a happy, healthy, relationship that works!

Advice from the heart from caring, knowledgeable, coaches, counselors and therapists available 24/7 at http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

Talk Therapy. Depressed over your relationship, work or another reason?

Do you feel like you are all alone sometimes? We all do. Are you depressed or down? Just a little ‘blue’ or is there a major thunderstorm of depression overhead? Is the situation you are going though something you can change? Is it your relationship or work that has you in such a rut? We are here to help you navigate your problems. A live person is here at Heart2HeartLive.com . Talk to one of our advisors right now.

Chances are you just need to talk or vent to release pressure. Usually this helps. Sometimes however, you may need more intensive measures like seeking a professional face to face counselor.

If you are feeling crummy, here are a few self help tips that may assist get you through a crummy time:

Are you getting enough sunlight? It may sound like something so simple, but just go grab some fresh air it will help. We, as living organisms, need sunlight to exist and to maintain a healthy life.

Is the issue that is causing you concern or getting you down something that will pass? Do you see an end to the problem? Try not to stress too much over a situation that you know will come to pass. If what is depressing you, you cannot see an end to, then you should talk to someone. Remember, this is not the end of the world, although it may really, really seem like it… ‘what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger’ .. and today is the day to become Hercules! Tell yourself it ‘will pass’ … To know there is an end to the problem helps.

Occupy yourself. Get busy with a hobby or do something constructive. If you are lonely you may fall into the same pattern which is a cause of sinking deeper and deeper into depression. But if you do something to make yourself feel like you accomplished something, then you are more likely to fight off the depression.

Talk therapy helps pick up the phone and call an advisor from Heart2HeartLive.com We care and we are concerned. Great relationship, love and advice for life. Licensed counselors as well as ‘real people’ are there and you can speak to someone right now.

Don’t sit and sink into a deeper depression. You deserve to be happy. Speak to someone now who can help! http://www.heart2heartlive.com/


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Is it time to walk away?

Relationships can be really, really tough sometimes. Your relationship should be a healthy source of happiness and your partner should be one that you draw strength from...not one that breaks you down.

Ok … we don’t live in a perfect world, but shouldn’t you be happy in your relationship? Are you in a loving relationship or is there jealously and betrayal? What makes your relationship tick? Is it that you and your partner both have the same visions and they bring you closer together? Is it that the two of you see things differently, but that brings you together because with different perspectives and open minds you can create something new all together?

Or do you constantly fight and disagree? Do you not see eye to eye on major issues? When do you say: ‘I think it’s time to walk away.’

Abusive relationships don’t always mean physical. We can be wrapped up in a mentally abusive relationship too. Or emotionally abusive … At what point do you say this is worth working on or this is too much to bear? Every relationship regardless if one person loves the other may or may not work because of the mechanics of the relationship.

Let’s talk about why you may be considering calling it quits. Let’s break down key issues and talk about them, you may not have to break up. Call an advisor for live advice any time of the day or night http://www.heart2heartlive.com/ Live advice from the heart. Ask one of our psychics too! Hand selected psychics with proven real psychic ability are available at Heart2HeartLive.com too.

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What is sexy? Tell me what you think sexy is!

What is SEXY? You tell me! I'd like to hear from you. Let me know what you think sexy is.
Or if you want to know what is sexy, give me a call. Lots of things make up what 'sexy' is. The way you walk, talk, dress, how you carry yourself. Confidence is sexy.
Let's talk about how you can be sexy.
Do you have a secret regarding what makes you sexy? Men, what do you think makes a woman sexy? Ladies, what do you think makes a man sexy? I'd like to know what you think! Call me now and tell me.
If you need sexy advice, I have it! http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

Happiness, Your Relationship & Perspective

Let talk about Perspective. http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

What is perspective? According to the online Cambridge Dictionary: Perspective is
a particular way of viewing things that depends on one's experience and personality
Perspective also means the ability to consider things in relation to one another accurately and fairly: With more maturity and experience, you will gradually acquire perspective.If something is in perspective, it is considered as part of a complete situation so that you have an accurate and fair understanding of it: Putting the past in perspective is an enormous task.

When we sometimes seek happiness we sometimes have a skewed version of reality. As you may know by now, I like quoting old adages … Well, they say ‘the grass is not always greener on the other side’ right? Right.

From the outside looking in, it’s your perspective that forms a ‘reality’ around a situation. For example, you are having problems in your relationship. Why? Are you creating issues to cause chaos for yourself? Are you sabotaging your relationship on purpose? Maybe in fact your relationship should be over. Relationships sometimes do end. But is this YOUR case? Or are you secretly wishing things could be better and you are getting into arguments to cause some sort of reaction by ‘stirring up the pot.’ But why?

Do you look at other couples and think others may have the perfect life? Do you think that everyone else who is in a committed relationship is happy all the time? Does this make you angry or make you seek ways to sabotage what you have? This is where perspective comes in.

Step back and ask yourself why did you fall in love with this person in the first place? Have you arrived at a time in your relationship that outside stresses influence the relationship? Is it breaking your relationship down? Did you once feel like you could spend the rest of your life with this person and now you are not sure? Lots of questions … and you need to ask these things to yourself one by one. Only you know. Getting advice helps: Betterworld

But it is up to you if you want to fix what’s broken and move forward or figure out if it’s just not worth it. The key is putting the REAL situation in perspective. Don’t let anyone influence you. It’s up to you once you stand back and take a good hard look at the facts and what you feel is best for your happiness. Visit me at http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

Your Relationship To The World Around You: Spirituality

There is something to be said for ‘Spirituality’. Just the word ‘Spiritual’ has a unique meaning to each person. I like to believe that being a ‘Spiritual’ person means to be aware of you and your relationship to the Universe. What does that mean … ? Well I guess it’s sort of like the ‘Golden Rule’ Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. If subscribe to this rule you will consider your actions and the role you play in relation to the rest of the world around you.

We all can’t be good all of the time, but to have some sort of belief in something or someone, helps to give us strength to stick to a life order of sorts. If you believe in yourself, you are halfway there. Spirituality comes from within. It’s not a religion. It’s a strength you draw from your core. You may not be a member of any particular religion, but you know what you do, has specific impacts on the people around you.

You still find yourself to be considerate of others and aware of your actions. This is what I call Spiritual. As well, you may identify yourself to be Christian, Catholic, Jewish, or another religion and still consider yourself Spiritual. It is both.

Spirituality comes from you. You radiate it and can be a ‘beautiful spirit’ just by being the best you can be.

Let’s talk Heart 2 Heart about Spirituality. http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

What is True Love? Let's have a Heart 2 Heart Live Talk About It

What is love exactly? Talk about it with someone at http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

I mean, what is true love? Some may say it is supposed to be unconditional. But we are humans and no matter what, certain situations change that. Like if we were cheated on … Can you still love that person? Did they really love you if they cheated on you to begin with? Are you a better person for standing by them or a fool?

True love is not that complicated. What we ‘think’ is love, is very complicated. Because it is very simple, no matter what you do, you should consider your actions and how it will impact your relationship and the one you love before you do it. That sounds simple right? Wrong. It’s more complicated than that. Like do you really love that person or not? Are you willing to act in your own best interest or for the one you love? If you don’t really truly love someone … sometimes you will hurt them… and may not care.

Now if you truly love someone, unfortunately for us, the evolved human being, it gets complicated. We have desires, compulsions, and issues that get in the way…and that’s the watered down version of reasons why we may do things to hurt the ones we love. Accidental or intentional, sometimes the pain that is caused to the ones we love hurts them bad enough to make them think you don’t love them. This may or may not be true.

So many dynamics as to why someone did something to hurt someone. This doesn’t mean we don’t love them. Are they being loved the way they should? Another good question…

Love is complicated. Relationships are complicated. Pain and suffering should not be incorporated in a relationship but sometimes is for many reasons. I can go on and on but I started this with one purpose and that was to make you think.

In the end, if you can, think about what you do and how it affects the person (people) you love. Anyone you love; your spouse, friend, family, whatever. Ask yourself ‘How would I feel if it were them doing what I am doing?’ If you would be hurt, angry or be affected in a negative way, maybe you should rethink what you were about to do. Is it worth ruining a relationship over doing something foolish? And by the same, think about how you could make someone feel by doing something wonderful.

Make love happen. Make your relationship strong. Live with happiness and joy. Love is a blessing. If you need to talk call someone at http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

So now that you have decided to get advice ... What do you do?

PART II

Congratulations! You have made a wise decision to get advice and from whom you will consult. So now what do you do? Get live advice.

Some things to remember:

First: You must be open and honest. The only way you are going to get advice you can use, is to address the real issues. Put everything aside. Peel back the layers. Do not be embarrassed. Talk about the details and include how you feel in relation to the issue and what the situation is causing for you in your life. How does your issue really affect your life? Be clear and honest. This is the only way someone who is willing to help give you a clear path as to what you need to do to get through your problem.

Second: Do not be defensive. If you are getting advice for anything, don’t be defensive. The key to getting great advice is that the advisor understands the details. He or she may ask a lot of questions so they can draw sound conclusions for you and really help you. State the facts and get into your emotions. When getting advice, it is sometimes a ‘knee jerk’ reaction to defend ourselves. You can state why you did what you did that put you in a situation and ‘defend’ your actions, but don’t be ‘defensive’. If someone is trying to give you advice and you make it hard for them, you may likely push them away where they don’t want to work with you and help you because you will come across as ‘complaining’ instead of seeking their advice to be proactive and to really help yourself. Remember, they want to HELP you.

Third: When getting advice, make sure you have an open mind. Be willing to consider options and suggestions. Remember, you may be in the situation you are in because of your typical patterns and behaviors. Only you can change them. If you are going to let some skeletons out of your closet, you might as well put the advice you receive into motion.

Fourth: When getting advice, sometimes we feel worse before we feel better. Just like the old saying goes ‘the truth hurts’. Well this is it! You have now laid your cards on the table. If you have consulted a person who genuinely cares for your well being and wants to see you recover from a situation, they may give you advice you don’t want to hear. But, again, this is because it is something you may not want to face, but it may be in your best interest to follow.

Fifth: Digest and give advice time. You don’t need to act right away in most cases. Have patience and let the advice settle in. See how you can work it into your situation where it can benefit you.

In the end, you needed help with something. You were brave enough to talk to someone who you can trust and is knowledgeable. Use that information for your benefit. Make sure you are comfortable with what they have told you and you feel you can put the advice into play.

If it doesn’t feel right, don’t act on it. Trust your gut and use your head. After all, you know what’s best for you and what you need to do for yourself to be happy.

TALK NOW to someone who cares.

Many suggestions for your problem. What is the best solution?

SEEKING ADVICE PART I

Hi. Betterworld here! When you have a problem, concern or situation and need advice, you can go to a friend, family member, co-worker, bartender or even your beautician! Most likely you will get six different answers to your issue. Which one is right? If you have a personal, knowledgeable, trustworthy source to go to for advice, go to them for help. If you need an outsider’s unbiased opinion as to what you should do, I have a personal site Heart2HeartLive.com where you can contact me through or contact me on Keen. I can offer live advice. I also feature other advisors from Keen on my site.

Consider these key elements when you seek some answers for your problem or concern:

First: Do you trust the source you are asking? Are you asking someone for help and guidance who really understands your situation or problem? I mean, are they knowledgeable in the area of expertise that you need good, sound advice for? Be sure you are talking to someone who really can help you.

Second: Do they understand your relationship to the problem? In other words, do they see where you are ‘coming from’ with regard to the dynamics of the problem? Make sure they are clear on what you are telling them and your ‘place’ in the problem. For instance if you were complaining about your boyfriend who won’t commit to you, but what you haven’t told them is your ‘boyfriend’ is a married man … well … that ‘little’ piece of information changes the entire direction of where the conversation and advice goes!

Third: Are you considering who you are consulting for advisement? Have you considered what role this conversation plays in the here and now or future with whom you are telling? Remember, information is a powerful thing. Can you trust the person you are talking to, to keep the information confidential? Can you trust the person you are talking to, not to judge you? It gets really complicated when you talk to someone close to you about an issue or problem that may be information that they can use to ‘come back and bite you with’.

Fouth: Do they have your best interest at heart? This point needs no explaining. Go with your gut. For example, I wouldn’t suggest going to your girlfriend’s friend for advice if you just met her two weeks ago. Her advice would most likely come from a place where she is looking out for her friends (and possible her own) best interest NOT your OR she may even try to break you two up!

When you have considered these key dynamics, in the end, you need to ask yourself: Am I comfortable with the options the ‘advisor’ or ‘consultant’ posed to me as sound, reasonable advice that I am willing to use to my advantage?

Make sure when seeking advice you are clear; focus on the facts and what you want to accomplish. A resolution can be found! However, it is up to you to get your point across and the true facts of the matter play a big part in what advice you get and how you can use it to your benefit. Be open. Be honest and DO NOT be embarrassed to address the REAL facts and elements that surround the situation.

When you talk to someone you know, if you think you may not be able to reveal key facts to help you get good, accurate advise, but have now just told someone about your personal thoughts, problems and information … you will end up feeling like you have made a mistake. Don’t speak now and feel insecure later about what you may or may not have told someone about your personal situation.

You can get advice from sources who won’t judge you at www.Heart2HeartLive.com who can be contacted through Keen.
Advisors, Psychics and Therapists on call to help you any time of day. I myself am an advisor. I can help you. Just call me or any of the advisors on Heart2HeartLive

Smile now. You will feel better. Later, talk about it and try to start resolving the issue.

I really get upset when I see people sad. It bothers me. If I could make people feel better and smile, my work would be done! I give advice on Heart2HeartLive.com through the Keen Ingenio network. I feel good when people feel better at the end of a conversation because when they called they were not in a good place. These people who contact me are taking responsibility for their happiness. Something is bothering them and they know they need to speak to someone about it. I commend these people who seek help and utilize the services of the advisors on Keen.
Everyday we go through our lives with our own issues and problems. We wish for things to get better but sometimes never really hold ourselves accountable for our own unhappiness. We are always complaining about the same issues over and over to the same people. 'My relationship sucks' 'My job sucks' 'I can't get a date' etc.
Each time we mention how unhappy we are it's like you are giving power to that negativity. When you command attention to something it takes the energy - good or bad - for what you have just given it away for and becomes stronger. So if you are giving energy to a negative feeling you will continue to be unhappy. Just like you are 'feeding' the negative energy...
Remember the old saying 'If you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all'? This comment is usually made when we comment negatively about or to someone else. Have you stopped to say to yourself, 'if you have nothing to say don't say anything?' Probably not. You should.
When we have a problem or issue try to resolve it. Don't give all your attention to a negative emotion or toxic situation. Take time out and deal with it. Talk to someone. But throughout your day...stop...smile...and concentrate on positive things.
How do you envision your life? Do you want to be happy? Do you want to feel bliss and joy? How will this be achieved if you carry your burden of problems with you all around and give them attention all the time?
Remember the other old saying... 'Misery loves company?' This is true when someone is miserable and wants to make you equally as unhappy as they are. Do you want to make others miserable or do you want to be happy? You make a choice every time you smile.
Just smile and hold your head high. Work on where you want to be ... what path or course you want your life to take. You have the power... you give attention to the positive or negative issues in your life. It's your choice. But there is a time and place for everything.
Like an actor; we see what act they put on. Well, if you have a situation you are going through, and you call attention to it all the time and that's all that will ever be seen.
Pick and choose when you want to give attention to a problem. When you decide you need to talk to someone, get into it. Address it and get to the root of the problem. Open up be honest so you can plan your course to resolve it. Otherwise, if you are not truly going to change or fix the actions you take, you will keep repeating your current situation over and over.
So, stop and smile. When you want to complain about your problems, stop and ask yourself 'will this fix my problem?' If it won't, then it is not the time to give that negative energy any attention until you are ready to tackle it head on and do something about it.
And in case you didn't know, when you smile and someone smiles back, you WILL start to feel better. It is like medicine. Smiles do help to cure you. So if you were about to feel 'blue' smile and the person who smiles back at you has just started to help you by giving attention to positive energy! This will help you to cope and get through your problem until you are able to address it and take steps to fix it, cope or heal.
You can call me or someone else on Heart2HeartLive.com We are here to help.

Good advice isn't hard to find ...If you look in the right place!

For a long time I have been giving advice to my friends, family and co-workers. The problem with that is you never really know what the whole story is and if what you are telling them is in their best interest since they may have left out a 'few minor details.'

I am new to Keen.com and wanted to say that my experience there helping people to get through an issue they may find 'embarassing' to speak about face to face with someone or being called by someone who seeks an unbiased opinion has been so fulfilling. In fact it has inspired my to create a new site Heart2HeartLive.com which will hopefully get more people to utilize the great avice service here on Keen!

I enjoy helping people who are going through a situation that they may otherwise find very hard to talk about. Either to someone who is close to them because they may not get a true answer or they may not have anyone around they trust to give them 'Good Advice'.

In fact, good advice is hard to find. Especially when it comes to love, dating, relationships, sex and family matters. Sometimes you don't have anyone to talk to, and plain and simple, don't want anyone you know to know your business! This is such a great way to have an adult conversation with a caring person who has your best interest at heart.

So, in closing to wrap up my first entry on my new blog, here on Keen ... It's nice to have a place to go where there are people who you can talk to: expert, advisor or psychic that can help you through a one time situation or be there for you if you just need to talk, vent or get your spirits lifted a little.

I'm here and my advice comes from my heart. My mission and purpose is to help people find happiness. Through this, one by one, the world becomes a better place. Spread love and joy.
Blessings!