Friday, March 27, 2009

Relationship Advice from Chariss Walker at Heart2HeartLive.com




Welcome Chariss Walker to Heart2Heartlive.com! You can call Dr Char for Relationship Advice, Spiritual & Life advice and guidance now!

Heart2HeartLive.com proudly welcomes aboard esteemed Minister and author Chariss Walker, better known as Dr. Char. Through her life experiences she helps clients with solutions to their problems. She gives insight and advice for relationship issues, love, spirituality, karma and life questions. Her area of expertise comes from a religious and metaphysical center as well as life experience as a Mother and Grandmother.

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Getting your realtionship on track



Where is your relationship going? Left? Right? In circles??? Get your relationship on track.
What do you say when someone asks you 'So how's it going with so-and-so?' If your reply is 'Fantastic! We are planning a lovely vacation and talking about moving in and getting a puppy!' or something of that nature, then I guess you are doing splendid! But for those of you who don't know what tomorrow or next week brings for you and your significant other, then you may be caught up in the 'Relationship Bermuda Triangle'

Let's talk about why you feel your relationship lacks direction and focus on how to create a more stable, reliable relationship with your partner. Grow and nurture a healthy relationship with help from an advisor from Heart 2 Heart Live.

Call an advisor now. Someone is available 24/7 to talk to you live about all of your relationship matters and issues. http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Mature Adult Dating 2: Dating? What's that again? For the non-existent date life or 'Chronically Single Syndrome'




We all know someone with CSS or 'Chronically Single Syndrome.'

Maybe it is you or maybe a friend. Why? Too busy? Too picky? Sometimes being single is great and sometimes it sucks.

Being single and dating is fun ... but what if you are not even dating? Why not? What is holding you back from going out and meeting someone tonight ... right now even? Why do you find it hard to approach a man or woman and start communicating with them? Is it your confidence or self esteem? Is it that you are too picky? Is it that you are too busy? Is it that you don't want to get involved in a serious relationship? Are you unhappy with yourself? So many reasons why we may not date. Finding a date is not difficult. I am telling you the truth! No matter who you are, where you are or what you have on your plate, you can always manage to squeeze in a date. Talk to someone at http://www.heart2heartlive.com/ for dating tips and ideas.

Dating and having a social life are just as important as working for all of you 'I'm too busy to date' types. Don't worry about not getting your work done because of allowing yourself one night a week for some social interaction. I assure you, the benefits you get from that one night out, will help you recharge ... so you will get more work done!

Are you angry that you aren't dating? Wish you were out there more? Let's explore why you are not dating. If the issue is something you need to change within you, we can talk about that... we can help you! If you just need some motivation, ideas or suggestions on where to go what to do or what to say, dress or act like, we can help with that too. Call and talk to a live advisor. We have dating advice for you. The only way you are going to get a date is to go out there and get one! Let us help!! Talk to someone live now and let's get you back in the dating scene http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

Let's put and end to CSS for you!

Monday, March 23, 2009

Mature Adult Dating: How our past relationships influence our current relationship or lack there of.


The saying is true, 'the older you get the harder it gets' This statement is the case for so many things as you 'grow up'. Lets take dating for example.

Typically as you start off your dating life, you get a boyfriend or girlfriend and are committed to each other and date exclusively. This is what is so special about young romance. Being a 'couple'.... ahhhhh! So sweet and innocent! It is almost part of your identity. You are known as 'Billy's girl' or 'Cindy's guy'. When exactly does the change take place where you go from committed and monogamous to dating and perhaps casual sex?

As you get older you may find yourself in this cycle. Maybe you are happy with this situation - variety is the spice of life! That is nice for the meantime but if you are in the boat sailing to the island of 'I better find someone and settle down or an important part of my life will soon pass me by' ... (don't ask me for exact coordinates of this island, it's sort of like the island in 'Lost', I don't know where it is) ... Then you are in this 'Mature Adult Dating Dilemma'. So many single late 20's and 30-somethings are finding it harder and harder to find happiness. At first it's fun to date and date but as you look around and all your friends are getting married and then having kids, you start to wonder ... 'Um.. why am I still single?' Perhaps you may have had relationships in the past that you compare all of the rest too. Perhaps you have crossed paths with someone who has really hurt you so you can't get serious with someone. Perhaps your ideas of what makes you happy and what you seek in a person are really non existent? Many influences from our past dictate or choices and actions in the present.

Do you want to be happy? Are you tired of being single? Lonely? Do you want to find someone you want to spend your life with? Are you tired of dating the wrong person? Are you searching for something that really isn't reality? Let's talk about why you are caught in the dating pattern you are in. Let's talk about ways to improve your choices and change your perspective so you can make the changes for a more positive dating experience.

Talk to someone at http://www.heart2heartlive.com/ about dating.

Friday, March 20, 2009

Relationship 101: Pick the time to talk to help avoid yelling and screaming


Arguing really sucks. But sometimes arguments are unavoidable. If you are in a relationship, you will argue plain and simple. But there is a time and place for everything. Get live advice on ideas to help at http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

Every discussion doesn’t have to end up in an argument. There will be issues and conflicts in your relationship but knowing when to address them and how, plays a major part in getting those problems resolved.

Some tips:

Don’t feed the fire. If you are aggravated over a situation, try to calm down and relax. This is your first step to finding a resolution to the problem. Remember cooler heads prevail.

Know when to discuss an issue. Picking a time and place that will control the situation for you, to some degree, helps. If you meet up at a diner for coffee or place to eat you know the two of you will have to control your tempers. If you are somewhere in public it usually helps to control the situation keeping the conversation rational and allowing the two of you to think things through and speak to each other in a calmer tone.

What you don’t want to do: Don’t plan to talk about an issue during a planned special evening out! If the issue waited as long as it has, it can wait until after your special time out. If you feel the situation is something that can’t wait, and happens to take place around the scheduled time of a major even, like a special evening out, try to hold back so the evening is not ruined with an argument, until you can find the time to discuss the matter. Patience never hurts and time may help reveal more information or a better way of addressing the issue.

Want to know more about how to get through an issue or how to get what you’re saying to be heard? Let’s talk about it. Heart2HeartLive.com

Let me know your tips and tricks how you manage to get through an sticky situation and meet a amicable resolution. Call me or any of the advisors on Heart 2 Heart Live we can help with your relationship question or help with some tips for your specific issue! http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Is your relationship self destructing? Or are you sabotaging it?


Fighting all the time. Braking up and getting back together. Physical violence, verbal abuse, premeditated acts inducing negative situations in you relationship...Does this sound familiar? Are you sabotaging your relationship? An advisor is standing by ready to talk to you http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

Sometimes a little drama is good .. let's face it things can get a bit boring but there is a world of difference between some fun banter, verbal sparring and blatant, down right negative behavior. Are you getting into drop down drag out fights all the time? Do you precipitate them? Or perhaps you find yourself involved in one that your partner invokes.

When you argue, you can trace it back to the cause. Is is legitimate? Arguments sometimes are petty and go on because you want to be heard or get your point across or make sure what ever happened to provoke the argument doesn't happen again. But is it more than that? Are you involved in a relationship that you argue over and over again about the same issues or are arguments stemming from of specific behavior that is not condoned in your relationship? Cheating, drug addiction, alcohol addiction, porn addiction, distance, isolation, jealousy, inability to be open, infidelity, fetishes, irrational behaviors, disorders, depression and the list goes on.

Do you want the sabotage to stop? How do you get through to someone who is acting like this? How do you stop it, if it is you doing the sabotaging? Let's talk about it. Wether it is you who is the one doing the sabotaging through negative patterns and behaviors or you find yourself victim in a relationship with someone you love so much but need to stop the madness ... Call a counselor at www.Heart2HeartLive.com and discuss how to navigate the situation. Talking helps. You may realize the entire situation is happening because of something completely unrelated to the actual argument ... which is more often the case than not.

Call now and get some answers and suggestions on how to create a loving, caring relationship. Let's figure out what is destroying your relationship and help you to have a happy, healthy, relationship that works!

Advice from the heart from caring, knowledgeable, coaches, counselors and therapists available 24/7 at http://www.heart2heartlive.com/

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Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Talk Therapy. Depressed over your relationship, work or another reason?


Do you feel like you are all alone sometimes? We all do. Are you depressed or down? Just a little ‘blue’ or is there a major thunderstorm of depression overhead? Is the situation you are going though something you can change? Is it your relationship or work that has you in such a rut? We are here to help you navigate your problems. A live person is here at Heart2HeartLive.com . Talk to one of our advisors right now.

Chances are you just need to talk or vent to release pressure. Usually this helps. Sometimes however, you may need more intensive measures like seeking a professional face to face counselor.

If you are feeling crummy, here are a few self help tips that may assist get you through a crummy time:

Are you getting enough sunlight? It may sound like something so simple, but just go grab some fresh air it will help. We, as living organisms, need sunlight to exist and to maintain a healthy life.

Is the issue that is causing you concern or getting you down something that will pass? Do you see an end to the problem? Try not to stress too much over a situation that you know will come to pass. If what is depressing you, you cannot see an end to, then you should talk to someone. Remember, this is not the end of the world, although it may really, really seem like it… ‘what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger’ .. and today is the day to become Hercules! Tell yourself it ‘will pass’ … To know there is an end to the problem helps.

Occupy yourself. Get busy with a hobby or do something constructive. If you are lonely you may fall into the same pattern which is a cause of sinking deeper and deeper into depression. But if you do something to make yourself feel like you accomplished something, then you are more likely to fight off the depression.

Talk therapy helps pick up the phone and call an advisor from Heart2HeartLive.com We care and we are concerned. Great relationship, love and advice for life. Licensed counselors as well as ‘real people’ are there and you can speak to someone right now.

Don’t sit and sink into a deeper depression. You deserve to be happy. Speak to someone now who can help! http://www.heart2heartlive.com/


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1-800-SUICIDE 1-800-784-2433


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